These are all concepts when said, which will penetrate through the mind and its various thought processes and stories that go along with whatever scenario is being worked through. And the stances will be justified and validated; all seen through the lens of conditioning still present. And it might, in some way, allow the mind to soothe itself, and thus emotions may feel better, for a while. But if the tension comes back — not release, but tension, it means these above did not happen fully. One (or more) is still attached in some way to a specific outcome.

Yes, we all prefer certain outcomes. Real life does not always have this same viewpoint. We resist it. It feels in the beginning counter-intuitive not to; it might be seen as a weakness not to go-go-go for what you want and push-push-push until you get it.

When these three words are lived, when all three are in harmony and there is no push, no pull, it’s different. One is in alignment with their nature and there is an instant knowing and feeling that is never missed when this happens. Liken it to gut instinct. One is freed from their own judgment call and needs no other’s approval of it. It is known the direction of the energy only, not the outcome. One is catapulted into vulnerability; into openness; into transparency; into authenticity.

This is not becoming desensitized and robotic. It is the exact opposite, actually, which is not over-sensitized, although in the beginning one will feel and see much, much more for the simple reason they are now available and acclimating their consciousness to see outside their normal looking lens.

It is being available, fluid and allowing trust outside of the mind’s rationale to base and ground your experience. What the mind cannot comprehend is that information comes more clearly, intuition comes more clearly, and the go-push philosophy falls flat as you become more and more in tune with your environment in a way that now the path you are on is more lived in totality than every-moment planned in captivity.

A few helpful notes: There is no positive or negative with these three words. They are absolutely neutral.

Where there is prolonged drama or tension in a situation, one of these three are not met.

Feel into these words with your Being…. flow for the next hour, hours, days, and witness this as a live happening. Where do you start? Now. Where is the opening to do this? It’s now. Oops, I slipped. Congratulate yourself for catching it. When do I start again? Now.

Meeting the present moment with your Presence is the gateway. As this becomes your predominant natural way, those three words you will see, very clearly, will no longer even be necessary in the same way. And that is a fine day indeed.